even josh is sighing at the thought and the behavior of the oversocialized person are more restricted by society's expectations than are those of the lightly socialized person.
frfr I know someone who has very severe ocd and it can be annoying to see people saying they have ocd because they don't want to have a filthy desk or something
I feel this with every other person so things not working out isn't really an issue with yourself most of the time but instead just a part of the process of finding the people that you fit with the best.